With difficulty. I consult several guides. Give the highly rated stuff a read.
Reddit printsf is good.
Reddit litrpg
Winners and nominees of awards. Nebula. Bram Stoker…
Goodreads.
Royal road
Scp foundation
Fimfiction
Ultimately, find a good author, read their everything.
When she’s turned on. I can smell it. But it isn’t really a smell. Like I’m unconsciously smelling it and then my unconsciousness taps my consciousness on the shoulder.
One (old) piece of advice I heard.
Your pocket handkerchief. Rub it on your balls. Then put it back in your breast pocket.
You will get more attention from the girls.
Pheromones are real and powerful.
Shikantaza meditation So smooth
Never happened.
Lime jello with sliced black olives
Both are based upon rationality, which is always broken.
I prefer aesthetics/feeling-of-rightness.