sewing is mine also. I don’t think I’ve talked to a single person in the 15 years I’ve been sewing that hasn’t reacted with shock to some degree or another upon finding out.

i like repairing clothes and making backpacks.

cannibal: the musical

a bunch of forums that talk to each other.

a decentralized collection of independently operated social media platforms that can choose to share information with each other.

I kind of want to hear your story that made you ask this question

putting on deodorant

feels gross smells gross

in case you don’t know, there is the option under user settings to hide bots.

my 2 cents:

none of what you’ve written here indicates you weren’t born gay.

“…wish i was in the woman’s shoes in porn (autogynephilia), that was my first homo sexual desire.”

that doesn’t sound like you were “simply born straight”

your post strongly suggests to me you have a lot to learn and accept about sexuality.

“always had a totally masculine identity, male engagements”

saying something like this indicates to me that you don’t understand the complexities of masculinity, femininity or sexuality.

did you read a lot of books as a child? is that masculine or feminine? did you climb trees?

assigning labels and expectations to your behaviors may be why you don’t view your own sexuality as “a case of normal, stable homosexuality”.

which is what it sounds like you are discovering: a case of innate normal, stable homosexuality.

i am so confused, i just looked it up and think i missed that episode somehow.

which is crazy because I love Atlanta and the Goofy movie.

thank you very much for leaving this comment. htf did that happen.

I was in the same boat and read a lot of different books and watched videos on how to draw, and the number one thing that helped me was the frequency with which I drew.

techniques made a difference certainly, but the amount that I drew was the primary factor in how satisfied I became with my art.

if I can share purely anecdotal evidence, something that seems to help me was not drawing the next line until I could see the next line in my head, and project that mental next line onto the paper that I was drawing.

I didn’t read that or watch that anywhere, I just thought that if I could picture what I wanted to draw in my head, I could probably draw it, and until that point I wasnt clearly picturing what I wanted to draw in my head.

your comment is incorrect because:

1. those who do not survive cannot speak up at all

2. it’s far more difficult to live for a cause than to die for it.

if this is about your survival, then survive.

surviving doesn’t mean you care any less; you’re taking care of yourself and hopefully in the future you’ll be in a better position to speak up for those rights like you obviously want to in the future.

whoa, really?

nice! congrats!

yes, herbalists and healers would have access to and knowledge of fast-acting poisons.

there are plenty of plants like nightshade that can rapidly kill a human, and those familiar with plant life would be well aware of that.

hemlock isn’t as fast acting, maybe a few hours before death if you ate it, but that’s how Socrates was executed 2400 years ago, and according to sources it took about half an hour for him to die, so knowledge of fast-acting poisons is very old.

on Hitler’s birthday. fancy that.

thanks for sharing.

you might have some soul searching to do!

best of luck!

hahaha, that’s solid

yikes, never heard of that. thanks, I’ll go look it up.

oh, no, sorry, haha.

I’ve been living abroad for a very long time.

If you are a native English speaker, you can be saving a couple grand per month in a few weeks if you don’t have a passport yet or start tomorrow if you do have a passport.

there are thousands of ESL jobs that will pay you an absolute minimum of $2,000 us a month working 25 hours a week in countries where the cost of living is less than $500 a month, but the quality of life is the same or better than the states.

you can get out of all the politics shit, go live a real life, and make a bunch of money doing it while doing good in the world helping students realize their potential and provide them with greater opportunities, and being an unofficial cultural ambassador, as far as you want to bridge the cultural gap between countries.

If you have any questions, I love talking about this stuff.

ohhhh boy, lemmy demographics kicking in, half an hour in with this as the first response.

I thought of die antwoord first, which is surprising and probably not correct but that’s my first answer.

I think they’re music videos have a lot to do with that, those really helped me lock into their songs.

I definitely like the zef vibe