Would you want to share a wife with other men?
Most instances of middle eastern polygamy have a heavy element of materialism to them. The women mostly agree because it gives them a higher standard of living, not because they like the concept.
People of Sweden have a relatively high living standard as a baseline so when your father’s second wife decided to do this it was like giving up ‘real’ partnership for some fancy hand bags.
Different country, similar politics: we got refugee kids rooting for the far right (full on Nazi) party thinking they’re hating with them.
he doesn’t get us