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Cake day: September 29th, 2023

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  • I just don’t care for it. I know it matters and makes up all our rules for the physical world and everything but it’s not interesting to me. I’m much more interested in social/psychological studies of life, so math talk just flies over my head most of the time.

    Also would agree with you about the educational system though. Growing up I was always held back and taken aside because I wasn’t doing the math either fast enough or “the right way”. I learned different tricks for multiplication than were taught at my school, but I would get to the correct answer. I was punished for this. It also shouldn’t matter how fast you can do math, as long as you’re getting the right answer. I fucking hated “math minutes” and had a lot of shitty teachers. Had some good ones too though.





  • I’ve been on one for about 4 years and have made I think about $600 over that time playing very casually. I know there’s way more intense people that can make a bit more but likely still not a living wage, just nice pocket money. Also, if you’re outside of the US, they seem to be cutting down on opportunities.

    The con is you’re essentially selling them your data via polls, app downloads, etc. Pro is money, I guess.

    Look up sites owned by Prodege, they’re all pretty similar, and they do pay out if you provide real info (e.g. paypal). Most complaints you’ll see online about people not getting paid out is because they don’t want to provide that, which is fair enough.

    Oh also UserTesting, which legit pays out well (10-20USD per 15-30min test), but you need to allow screen/mic recording and it takes a lot more involvement. I imagine investing a bit of time into it could fare pretty decently, but I don’t have that kind of energy or time.






  • My partner is very much in your boat. At home and any time we go out to “safe” spaces (like queer spaces) he is very open and absolutely enjoys himself. We got pedicures the other day and he had sparkly blue toenails for like a week and loved it.

    Unfortunately, he works in the auto industry and we live in a more conservative area, so whenever we’re not in a “safe” space, I can 100% see him reverting to a more “hardened” version of himself. I know it’s just self-preservation, but I can see (and he knows) how much happier he is when he doesn’t have to be that way. It really sucks and I wish I could help him out of his shell a bit more, but I totally understand the shitty circumstances.

    The patriarchy hurts every single one of us.