• Ben Hur Horse Race@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      thats crazy in my book. jerking off is just getting self satisfaction, no connection, no sensuality, I mean you’re alone with a screen.

      actual sex is amazing, and I’m not apeing what my phone screen shows, I’m really drawing it out and enjoying every little nuance. most of the porn I’ve watched has next to nothing to do with what decent sex is actually like

      • h3doublehockeysticks [she/her]@hexbear.net
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        1 year ago

        You’re still training yourself to only see the PIV/PIA (This is clearly not a Sapphic post, and I don’t know how trans man porn works) as the sexy bits. While all of the sex is the sexy bits.

  • blunderworld@lemmy.ca
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    1 year ago

    I hate that I relate to this, because honestly I feel like constantly skipping around to get to the good stuff can’t be good for us.